secondary school fr or poly friends better?

[ai_fang]

do you think poly friends is better than your sec school friends?
Anyone agreee? but some people say hard to get true friend in poly, but i dun think so..
or anyone have different view?

[jan]

well... i agree partially. in poly u tend to tink more maturely and are of course more professional in work. frenship wise depends. i guess its the same. most of my sec sch frens are in the same poly as well.. haha.. but i do get true frens from poly too. everyone has different experiences so i tink everyone will be different.

[dustflower]

sec friend are naive >.<

[jan]

Well... in the end... all of us grows up to be the same. Last time naive. Now maybe not.

[choco_fudge]

poly also from sec school, so not much diffrence

[jan]

yea.. same same people. Its a small world after all.

[gamers2000]

I dont think is see poly/sec sch,but more of see the person.

[mdzulkar9]

personally for me, poly friends are better because they're more understanding and have a higher sense of maturity. sec school friends are great but they can only try to understand you. in poly you'll find people who actually does understand you.

well, that's how i see it.

i still have best friends from sec school that i've grown with for years and they can be as mature, but sometimes lack understanding. i still love em.

[Kerol]

This is a hard one. Hah. ;D

Secondary school buds, I guess we go through that same lap together. Sitting in class, doing our 10-year series, nags from our teacher, doing stupid things, and I guess everything that would and might happen in secondary schools.
We get so attached to each other that even 5 years down the road upon graduation, we are still remembered by the things we once did. Or the achievements we achieved together.

POLY friends, because everybody is being extra careful. Choosing the right people to mix around with. Especially when it comes to doing projects. We tend to be a bit judgmental (true?) and once your partner/or group mate screws up, then we might go something like "Aiya. Next time, I would not wanna work with him/her anymore!"
Definitely, to have friends in the tertiary level is easy. Just be jovial, be open and just be yourself.
BUT finding true friends is hard, but if we look deep enough, there's more the number that we expected. And once we have true friends, we stick with them like glue.

Get my drift?

Yeah, so I guess there's no better-situations between those two.


CHEERS!
(By the way, this is my first time writing a reply to the topics. Haha!)

[mayi]

when in secondary school, sec sch friends more fun together la.. cos mentality more childish and then play those kid-do games.

in poly, i must say they are more mature and if both are of same frequency, really can click well.. if different frequency, really will go very off.. unlike in sec sch, who cares if you are in the same frequency as your friends.

maybe that is why mdzulkar9 says that "secondary school friends try to understand you while poly friends understands you."

but sometimes, poly friends very selfish also.. well, due to acadamy, some actually approach u because u r more intelligent and some what "make use" of you.. well, secondary school friends are more naive so they do not really go into "scheming" and "plotting".. hahaha!

but still, for me, i prefer my poly friends because, we are of relatively same frequency so can click better.. yea~

[WoShiKengWee]

Secondary school friends are abit better.
Primary school students dont hang out much, so they actually get friends that really hangs out when during secondary school, where its the most memorable part of our life. Skipping school, pranking teacher, disturbing classes, running away from hair checks.
It can be considered that we had our real first best friends. Now I seldom contact my Primary school mates, mostly secondary schools and poly.

[coldkohmew]

Secondary school friends is no time more fun and poly friends is vice versa but friends is friends...